Do Quilters Have Fewer Divorces?
09-02-2011, 01:37 PM
#72
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Divorced since 2001, married 21 years, quilted almost the whole time. Got tired of storing fabrics "wherever" and in garbage bags, so after the divorce I bought a house with a room for my crafts....quilting and more. Never would have had that luxury with him.
09-02-2011, 06:07 PM
#75
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Location: Avon, IN
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Been married 50 years. Life is much easier now. He just recently talked me into buying a long arm. I was the one who was hesitant. He has never questioned how much I spend on material or gadgets, etc. We moved into a much larger house 3 years ago and I now have a fairly large room for my sewing stuff with a walk-in closet, a bathroom and even a mini fridge and TV. Thought of getting a micro-wave and then I could even fix my meal there. He is a great help getting the quilt on the frame and anything in the mechanical or construction line. He now is talking about getting me a new, faster computer. He is certainly a KEEPER.
09-02-2011, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by sguillot
I totally agree with you. I have always worked because I am 18 years younger than he but he was my hero and inspiration. He encouraged my quilting, even bought me a long arm quilting machine but often teased about all the fabric I bought. After he passed away my machine went untouched and sometimes I couldn't bare to even look at my stash. Now I am taking classes again and getting back to it and find I even love it more because of his encouragement and patience.
Originally Posted by Normacharlie
My husband is deceased but he never questioned what I bought or why, it was our money not his, whether I worked or not! He was a true gem and I miss him everyday. Trust me if all husbands were as patient with their wives (not other people) there wouldn't be divorces.
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09-02-2011, 07:15 PM
#78
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I was divorced twice in my young 20's. Finally found the 3rd one and we have been together for 34 years. We respect each other & ea have our own hobbies. He encourages me in every way with my hobby (quilting) and helps me anytime I need it. Insisted we buy a LA and he uses it. He always asks when shopping for fabric, "Are you sure you are getting enough?" He is an enabler. LOL But I love the guy and think we have this down well. I just pray that we have many many years together to enjoy life. Yes he does have a brother but he is a Pig! LOL
09-02-2011, 11:28 PM
#79
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Location: San Marcos, CA
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quilting saved me.....after 30 years, 7 children, and 10 grandchildren (at the time), he walks out. My daughters saved my quilting equipment, i was giving up. Those happily married, you deserve happiness, and may you have many more years, together. Now, 17 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren later, I am blessed with them and my quilting. Thank you daughters!
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