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    Old 10-26-2010, 08:35 PM
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    I don't want to seem ungreatful but no my husband (US Army) doesn't like it.
    There have been a few that would walk up and touch him to get his attention. Thats a HUGE NO NO!
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    Old 10-26-2010, 09:12 PM
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    i dont see anything wrong with giving them a quick Thank you and then let them go on about there business. it will mean a lot to them
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    Old 10-26-2010, 09:15 PM
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    Originally Posted by justwannaquilt
    I don't want to seem ungreatful but no my husband (US Army) doesn't like it.
    There have been a few that would walk up and touch him to get his attention. Thats a HUGE NO NO!
    Please don't feel ungrateful! Everyone is allowed their opinion and it's good to hear both sides :)
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    Old 10-26-2010, 09:20 PM
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    Originally Posted by Ramona Byrd
    Ya'll would be really surprised at how little money these kids have. It makes me want to cry.The military pays them almost nothing.
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    Our grateful American Government pays them so magnificently that most of them qualify for food stamps. Then recently some nut in the white house actually wanted to make them pay for their own medical care, "because they were volunteers and knew just what they were getting into."
    Yes, I'm an old lady but I will continue to buy a meal or a snack or whatever I can afford for these marvelous young folks.
    I shop at the Navy Commissary and the NEX. It really saddens me to see these young ladies with children having to pay for their groceries with food stamps. I have even seen a few, after their items were rung up, have to return a few items because they could not afford them. There is something wrong when our men and women put their lives on the line for our country and we don't even pay them a living wage!!!!
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    Old 10-26-2010, 09:22 PM
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    "I lent him my cell phone so he could call his wife and son to say hi and talk until the plane took off"



    Thank you for doing that. Our service men and women can't take their Cell phones with them overseas. When my daughter was returning home from Iraq last year some wonderful person lent her their phone so she could call us and let us know that she was on American Soil. We were so appreciative of that person.
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    Old 10-26-2010, 09:40 PM
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    Originally Posted by justwannaquilt
    I don't want to seem ungreatful but no my husband (US Army) doesn't like it.
    There have been a few that would walk up and touch him to get his attention. Thats a HUGE NO NO!
    Don't apologize. That is not being ungreatful. A lot of people don't like to be touched.

    That is something I won't do to get their attention now. I always say, "Sir", or "Excuse me". I don't know where they've been or what they've experienced. Can't even begin to imagine what some have been through. I won't presume to invade their space. But I think because of my daughter I'm more aware of this.

    I actually a "huggy" person but have learned not everyone else is.
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    Old 10-26-2010, 10:08 PM
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    My son is a Capt. with the police department and he always is thrilled with any show of appreciation for him or the men that serve with him---
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    Old 10-26-2010, 11:22 PM
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    It's great to see how much you respect cops and militairy in your country. In my country the respect for militairy is not so big. It's even in the newspapares what they did al wrong but there is almost never what they did good for.

    Policemen, at our country the most of the people don't have any respect of cops at all. They are seen as no heroes but as week chickens. They are a lot of cop jokes were they turned out to be big morans. I think it's a shame for all the good people who work there.
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    Old 10-26-2010, 11:25 PM
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    I have found it is never wrong to be friendly no matter how you do it!
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    Old 10-27-2010, 12:43 AM
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    I read something recently that said one way to thank or acknowledge our service-men and -women was just to quietly place your right hand over your heart and make eye contact and keep going. That way you don't intrude, but still the person knows that you are showing appreciation. I think it's a marvelous gesture and I'd love to see more people adopt it. God bless all our service-men and women! BTW, are all of you helping with the Quilts of Valor project? Go to www.qovf.org for info.
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