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    Old 06-29-2010, 10:20 AM
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    Just enjoy it!
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    Old 06-29-2010, 10:41 AM
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    your baby lock will probably last much longer and require less maintenance than the lower priced Brother, so you need to consider how much it would have cost to replace and maintain the Brother during the lifetime of the Babylock....
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    Old 06-29-2010, 11:04 AM
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    YOU CAN ONLY SPEND MONEY ONCE
    so why beat yourself up over it....
    do you have the money? able to pay it? the machine will last a gooooooood long while - will it work out to 50 dollars a year?
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    Old 06-29-2010, 11:12 AM
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    You can spread the joy of the sewing machine around by making quilts and craft items for gifts. You can mend your husband's clothes(smiley face!). This sewing machine doesn't just benefit you, but anybody you sew for. $500 sounds like an amazing deal!
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    Old 06-29-2010, 02:04 PM
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    Just enjoy it! I bet its a great machine!
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    Old 06-29-2010, 02:29 PM
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    I understand how you feel. Think of it this way, a craftsman needs the best tools they can afford wether it is a lap top for a business man, a full set of tools for a mechanic, the best shoes for a nurse, the best oven for a baker. You are a craftsman and you need the best tool. Celebrate you new baby and don't look back.
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    Old 06-29-2010, 03:02 PM
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    Originally Posted by sunnycat
    Yesterday, I purchased a babylock Crafter's Choice sewing machine. I got a fantastic deal on it from a great dealer who threw in a free walking foot. I should be ripping it out of the packaging to play with it, but I was up all night worrying about how selfish it was of me to spend $500 on myself. My husband and I do very well for ourselves, financially, but we're very frugal. This is by far the most either of us has ever spent on a hobby. I toyed with getting a lower priced model from Walmart (one of the Brothers), and I kind of feel guilty going for the more expensive model. It's not like anyone but me is going to get enjoyment out of the sewing machine. Does anyone else feel this way ever? Or should I just shut out the voices in my head and get to playing with my new toy?
    God gifted you with a talent. Expressing yourself through fabric and thread. What do you do with the quilts, etc, you create? Your purchase will bring you great joy and I'll bet that joy gets passed on to others. BTW $500 is NOT a lot of money for a good sewing machine. Many machines cost thousands of dollars. So you have still maintained your frugal lifestyle and made a good purchase as well. ENJOY EVERY MOMENT YOU SPEND USING YOUR NEW BABY. What is her name? Why is it that we women often feel guilty for buying things that give us joy? The men I know spend much more on their toys with out the guilt.
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    Old 06-29-2010, 04:09 PM
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    I know the feeling. But you deserve it! Go ahead and enjoy it. BTW, that is a GREAT price!! They go for over $1,000 here.
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    Old 06-29-2010, 05:31 PM
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    Please don't feel guilty. Your husband will benefit too. For one thing, you will have so much fun, which will make you happy, a happy wife is a nice wife. Also, you could make him something like a lap quilt, or a remote caddy for his chair. Does he have a hobby? If so, encourage him to treat himself.
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    Old 06-29-2010, 05:36 PM
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    I just went thru the same thing! It's hard not to feel guilty....i think it's in the genes. I only know that my new machine will help me with the quilts i donate, so i am okay with my purchase. Go easy on yourself and enjoy it!!!
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