Had a scare this morning.
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I no longer foster since I have a canine family of five but I am grateful for those of you who do. You thought through it logically and handled it well. Kudos to you for fostering. I do rescue runs on the weekends instead...
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that is really scary, because your baby cant tell you if they are hurt. you did the right thing though, i know it was hard for you to let the other go but you have to protect your baby first. hope you get to feeling better.
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My one and only attempt to foster dogs was just as ugly.
We went to the local no-kill shelter because they asked for volunteers. As I filled out the paperwork, DH talked to the caretakers. We went to see 'our' foster. Sammy was cute as can be. I walked back inside just in time to hear the last part of a conversation. "I have to give Sammy his meds" I followed the speaker, (not the director) and asked "what meds does Sammy need?" She cheerfully replied "Oh it's just for mange. He has to have a bath every other day to keep it under control". Mange?! I was very clear that I had four other pets at home! I walked back out front and asked the director about the mange (that she never mentioned). She looked me in the eye and stated"Oh don't worry, it is manageable, just bathe him every other day and you will be fine." I just had to ask "why not just cure it?" Again, looking me right in the eye stated "Oh, mange is incurable." This woman runs a shelter??????
Mange IS curable with an application of 'blue coat' or similar product. Needless to say we left, went home and got the prescription from the vet, since we had touched Sammy, in case our animals caught it. I hate STUPID people. WE do not 'foster' dogs through that woman!
We went to the local no-kill shelter because they asked for volunteers. As I filled out the paperwork, DH talked to the caretakers. We went to see 'our' foster. Sammy was cute as can be. I walked back inside just in time to hear the last part of a conversation. "I have to give Sammy his meds" I followed the speaker, (not the director) and asked "what meds does Sammy need?" She cheerfully replied "Oh it's just for mange. He has to have a bath every other day to keep it under control". Mange?! I was very clear that I had four other pets at home! I walked back out front and asked the director about the mange (that she never mentioned). She looked me in the eye and stated"Oh don't worry, it is manageable, just bathe him every other day and you will be fine." I just had to ask "why not just cure it?" Again, looking me right in the eye stated "Oh, mange is incurable." This woman runs a shelter??????
Mange IS curable with an application of 'blue coat' or similar product. Needless to say we left, went home and got the prescription from the vet, since we had touched Sammy, in case our animals caught it. I hate STUPID people. WE do not 'foster' dogs through that woman!
She should have known her stuff though and let you know before she let you decide to take the dog. Its only fair.
The lady from this rescue came to pick up the other stuff today that was for Angel. She said Angel is going to two girls who are groomers that have experience with dogs. I guess 8 years of fostering are not enough. Maybe I was just lucky. Of course in my old rescue Angel would never have been placed in a home anyway after biting someone she would have gone to stay at a boarding facility where a trainer could evaluate her and work with her.
I was also told that if I foster I should expect fights between my dogs and the fosters. Never happened. Maybe because our dogs were very carefully screened before they went to fosters. The only foster I know of that had fights was one who took way too many animals and she had a feral that decided she would live in the house but not have anything to do with anyone but my friend. After the 5th or 6th fight that ended up with my friend having severe damage done to her hand the decision was made to put the dog down. She just wasn't safe to have in a house with other dogs or people. She would go after everyone by M.
I hope it doesn't happen but if Angel doesn't go to a proper trainer with someone who is very trained in behavioural issues I see someone getting hurt.
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Originally Posted by madamekelly
My one and only attempt to foster dogs was just as ugly.
We went to the local no-kill shelter because they asked for volunteers. As I filled out the paperwork, DH talked to the caretakers. We went to see 'our' foster. Sammy was cute as can be. I walked back inside just in time to hear the last part of a conversation. "I have to give Sammy his meds" I followed the speaker, (not the director) and asked "what meds does Sammy need?" She cheerfully replied "Oh it's just for mange. He has to have a bath every other day to keep it under control". Mange?! I was very clear that I had four other pets at home! I walked back out front and asked the director about the mange (that she never mentioned). She looked me in the eye and stated"Oh don't worry, it is manageable, just bathe him every other day and you will be fine." I just had to ask "why not just cure it?" Again, looking me right in the eye stated "Oh, mange is incurable." This woman runs a shelter??????
Mange IS curable with an application of 'blue coat' or similar product. Needless to say we left, went home and got the prescription from the vet, since we had touched Sammy, in case our animals caught it. I hate STUPID people. WE do not 'foster' dogs through that woman!
We went to the local no-kill shelter because they asked for volunteers. As I filled out the paperwork, DH talked to the caretakers. We went to see 'our' foster. Sammy was cute as can be. I walked back inside just in time to hear the last part of a conversation. "I have to give Sammy his meds" I followed the speaker, (not the director) and asked "what meds does Sammy need?" She cheerfully replied "Oh it's just for mange. He has to have a bath every other day to keep it under control". Mange?! I was very clear that I had four other pets at home! I walked back out front and asked the director about the mange (that she never mentioned). She looked me in the eye and stated"Oh don't worry, it is manageable, just bathe him every other day and you will be fine." I just had to ask "why not just cure it?" Again, looking me right in the eye stated "Oh, mange is incurable." This woman runs a shelter??????
Mange IS curable with an application of 'blue coat' or similar product. Needless to say we left, went home and got the prescription from the vet, since we had touched Sammy, in case our animals caught it. I hate STUPID people. WE do not 'foster' dogs through that woman!
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As someone who has been fostering and rescuing about 17 years, I know exactly what you went through. Most of the dogs I have had were great, but every once in a while you get one that does not work out in your home. This is not your fault. For whatever the reason, it's not a good fit.
Sometimes it is a physical condition; sometimes it's pack order; sometimes it's hard to know. As a foster, your input is extremely valuable so the rescue knows how to proceed with the dog in question.
IMHO, fosters are like gold. They, quite simply, save lives. There are more rescues that need fosters than not. If you are not appreciated where you are, there is some other group that would be glad to have you.
Bottom line: your family, and this includes your pets, have a right to feel safe in their own home. It is unfair for you and your pets to feel threatened because one animal is not working out. Face it: some dogs are better off being the only dog. All rescuers know this. And people giving up their dogs don't always mention negative things about the dog, putting others at risk.
So don't feel bad at 'inconveniencing' the rescue. You did nothing wrong.
Sometimes it is a physical condition; sometimes it's pack order; sometimes it's hard to know. As a foster, your input is extremely valuable so the rescue knows how to proceed with the dog in question.
IMHO, fosters are like gold. They, quite simply, save lives. There are more rescues that need fosters than not. If you are not appreciated where you are, there is some other group that would be glad to have you.
Bottom line: your family, and this includes your pets, have a right to feel safe in their own home. It is unfair for you and your pets to feel threatened because one animal is not working out. Face it: some dogs are better off being the only dog. All rescuers know this. And people giving up their dogs don't always mention negative things about the dog, putting others at risk.
So don't feel bad at 'inconveniencing' the rescue. You did nothing wrong.
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Thank you all for your responses and super support. Since Andy is getting up there in years and physically I am not able to handle snarky dogs anymore I have decide that for now I will not foster until Andy is no longer with me.
Unless of course a foster comes along that I feel is appropriate to have in my house. One I just can't pass up. I got the feeling from her yesterday that she won't be calling me again to foster which is fine.
I did what I could.
Unless of course a foster comes along that I feel is appropriate to have in my house. One I just can't pass up. I got the feeling from her yesterday that she won't be calling me again to foster which is fine.
I did what I could.
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Hey! I hope you and Andy are both feeling a lot better now. Dog fights are scary for me and I only have my own dogs to worry about. And my dogs are all about the same size. It would be really bad to have a much larger "guest" attack a much smaller family. I'm sorry those people treated you the way they did. Even if you were inconveniencing them, that is part of their job. I don't think I would foster another dog for these people. I do hope things are better now. Take care of yourself and Andy!
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AMEN to all of you. I too have fostered for many years. I take the hard to adopt ones. Who have clearly been mistreated and have other issues, and rehabilatate. I've seen good and bad foster agencies in my time. It's to bad when you have to find out the hard way which ones your working for. I'm glad to hear Andy is doing well. Hugs and kisses to you both.
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Well she called and told me they had another dog. 25lbs, had puppies and pups were adopted. This one had a burn on her back they don't know how she got it and they weren't sure she would get adopted.
I don't get it what part of Andy's size (13) or smaller did she not get.
Andy has been acting a little off the last few days. Not quite himself. So until I can figure out what is going on and get him checked out there will be no more fostering. My brat comes first.
I don't get it what part of Andy's size (13) or smaller did she not get.
Andy has been acting a little off the last few days. Not quite himself. So until I can figure out what is going on and get him checked out there will be no more fostering. My brat comes first.
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