OKLAHOMA PEACH

I'm very lucky with my family, they love to see what I have made them for Christmas. The hand made items always mean more to them than the bought. We all have our hobbies and it adds to the enjoyment of life, as long as they are not distructive.

dhanke

My response to her would be "Why in the world does this bother you so much? You might get some insight into her motives.

pawebdoctor

Mary...

Be thankful for what they have done for you in the past. But this is now... and it's time for you to enjoy a new found passion. Yes, you will want to buy a piece of fabric that you just can't live without... if you have the money at the time and it won't affect anything else... go for it. Also... keep your eyes open at garage sales and flea markets. Sometimes you can get a tremendous buy for next to nothing.

Jeanniejo

I would find someone else to shop with that appreciates fabric & quilts. Doesn't sound like much of a friend. Maybe she's jealous of your talents.

Cheshire Cat

Mind if I use this in the future?

Ritacarl

I have experienced being "poor" or with a lesser income than a lot of people. I found that you have to have an outlet. Someway to express yourself. Spending a few bucks on yourself is very good therapy. Makes one feel not so "poor". Tell your relatives to walk in your shoes a few miles and then get back to you!!
Rita

TN Donna

Buy what you want and never tell her how much or what you already bought.

DianD

M.Y.O.B. Mind your own business!!!
"Now, will you drive me or shall I call a cab?"

eimay

It depends on your personality...

"Thank you for your opinion...now, let's talk about how you..."

Or

"Some people smoke or drink and have nothing to show for it; I buy fabric to make something for others or myself."

or

Smile at her, keep smiling and don't respond...it may drive her nuts!

QuiltMania

You say, very sweetly, "Thank you for your input" and then do what you feel is best for you.