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    Old 02-16-2012, 05:44 AM
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    Hi all, I just went to my inbox, deleted all of my sent pm's to try to get to the limit. I still need to fix the inbox and move to folders. Clarity of thought has not been my friend. I think now that I may owe 2 people for for items. I am usually extremely prompt with this.

    Last year, I was called to go to help my brother in the hospital. Form early July to late November I was in Michigan. I went to the hospital everyday. I clung onto hope and kept real positive for a great outcome. I wanted my brother to come home and I would stay with him to help get him back on his feet. Trying to find information from doctors and nurses was like pulling teeth. I barely spoke with him the entire 3 1/2 months while he was in intensive care, only a few words mouthed. I went into shock when I was approached by hospice. I felt the doctors were not telling me everything and keeping the truth from me. I felt so helpless. After the funeral, there was so much to do. I was alone in his house and finally just had to get out of there. I made it home on Thanksgiving. The board had changed. I asked for help to fix the pm issue, but my confused and squirrly life has not allowed me to fix it yet. (I will try again soon)

    So to the people I have messed up with, I am truly sorry. I will ask for more help if I cannot get my mails cleared sou so that I may communicate again.

    Sorry that life got in the way and I have been unable to fix it right yet. I feel such the fool for messing up. Thanks for reading......
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    Old 02-16-2012, 07:52 AM
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    I have no idea what you are talking about, but I'm really sorry to hear about your brother's passing, and I hear the need for a hug. So here's a hug from me today. Smile. Tomorrow will be a better day.
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    Old 02-16-2012, 08:04 AM
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    Bless your heart! I went through a similar challenge when my parents were hospitalized and I stayed at their home for a couple months trying to keep things going for them. Hospitals are not always our friends. It is not an easy path you have chosen, but as I found out - through all trials are lessons learned and blessings prevail.
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    Old 02-16-2012, 09:25 AM
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    Life happens. You, my dear, are forgiven. I'm sure all the people you've "messed up" with will offer grace and forgiveness. Hugs to you for being there for your brother.
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    Old 02-16-2012, 09:37 AM
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    {{{{{{HUGS}}}}} for all you went through with your brother. Your feedback score is 100%, so either you don't owe anyone or they are still patiently waiting. Many people have been slow to adapt to the new board, so you are not alone!
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    Old 02-17-2012, 10:52 AM
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    Will be lifting you up in prayers and sending a hug your way xxxxxx.
    You are not alone, lots of people have had problems getting used to the new board, but be patient, you'll get used to it.
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    Old 02-17-2012, 10:56 AM
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    We all messed up I think when the board first changed alot of people deleted things and didn't know how to get them back in order. Send a PM to one of the moderator's I'm sure they can help you out with the PM folders. A lot of us have had a difficult year we are here to help if you need someone to talk to.
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    Old 02-17-2012, 11:05 AM
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    Keep your chin up. Rely on us for emotional support. We will be here for you---(even if you can't find us or we can't figure out how to get to you--LOL).. Many of us still struggle with this board but we can always ask for help and there is always a wonderful person out there who is willing to help direct you and me to whatever we need.
    You are not alone...
    I am sure if you owe someone money and they really need it,,,that they will contact you again. Bless you...
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    Old 02-17-2012, 11:31 AM
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    Hugs for you, and I am sure you will be forgiven . Life does get in the way for all of us....and so does forgiveness at a time like that.
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    It is very hard to lose your sibling, I am sorry for your loss. Be sure the kind people on this board will understand your situation.
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