Knot in my chest
07-22-2011, 07:04 AM
#35
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April,I too will be praying for your hubby today as he is back to work after several surgeries. I know the weather in NY is extremely hot today adding to the stress. God certainly will be with your hubby as he works to make possible the new twin towers monument. Thanks to him (and you) from all of us for what he is making happen.
07-22-2011, 07:06 AM
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I understand your feelings and your concerns... but before you know it, the work day will be over and you will be seeing his face in front of you and all will be okay. Deep breathe for now and know that he must know how much he is loved and cared-for.
07-22-2011, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by LovingIzabella
Okay this may seem stupid but I guess I just need some reassurance lol I am worried about hubby today. He works for the company building the new trade towers and he is in them today installing cell repeaters. I sure hope he has a harness and that he is careful. He can be quite clumsy sometimes and being so far up makes me nervous since he just finished foot surgery and has gone through two back surgeries. Okay maybe that is what is eating me...he is not usually so high up in an unfinished building....going to go do some work now. Need to let this knot ease....I don't normally get this kind of knot when he goes in to the city for work...I guess I am just a nervous nellie? a worry wart??
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April
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April
April, Your not just a nervous Nellie. Your husband job comes with built in seriousness and the possibility for danger. My DH used on top of and through out unfinished buildings too installing AC and ventillation equipment when we were first married. There we many times I felt ferful when other trades weren't being careful and that can also cause harm to inoscent other workers. I got through those times remmebering that my DH had God watching over him and protecting him from harm. God knows you DH has a loving family depending on him and God will protect you Dh and his family from loss and harm. I used to remond my husband of this and my fears and my DH would say I never take stupid risks and stay away from people who do. Life consists of built in concerns and I can make mountains out of mole hills or trust that God watches over me and mine . All I have to do remember to ask for my fears to be calmed and my prayers answered.
I hope the experience of my past helps you now and in the future. Keeping yourslef busy and productive helps the day pass quickly and relieves stress. {{{HUGS}}}
07-22-2011, 12:11 PM
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If I let myself, I can get so worked up worrying, I am in almost a panic. It's easy to say 'don't worry', but don't worry. You can't change anything by worrying - it's so much wasted energy. And it doesn't mean you love him less if you don't worry. I think some people think if they are always worried, it means they care more. Just try to focus on something else, and the day will be over soon. good luck!
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