Turkey is king on Thanksgiving. Ham on Christmas.

locking something up - with a key or the kind where you have to know the numbers.

Not sure what you mean. I use the garage door keypad to lock up but all the other doors are locked from the inside.
Not sure if this answers your question.

Essential oil diffuser or something else? (or nothing)

the reeds as a diffuser I love smelly things like that. I think they are great

pudding tapioca or chocolate

I guess I meant padlock where you turn the little dial.

Chocolate.

MASH - Radar or Klinger

Sick of that show! Neither

The Marx Brothers or The Three Stooges

Stooges

stuffing or dressing

dressing----

pumpkin pie or pecan pie

pumpkin pie in our house.

Thanksgiving appetizer: soup or shrimp cocktail?

Soup

Quilting by hand or machine

hand, but am now having a quilt done by machine by a pro.

homemade Christmas cards, or storebought