sorry about your situation. please get yourself a back brace to wear when going thru boxes. walgreens usually has them, tell your sister in law if there is anything she wants to come and get it within 2 weeks or its going at a garage sale. you are not her servant. situations like this make me furious. keep what you and hubby want and get rid of the rest. a giant garage or estate sale. i guess i'm venting now.