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Ramona Byrd 07-30-2010 09:41 AM

My husband was in a nursing home for 3 years before
he passed, and I NEVER noticed a bad odor. With the
exception of walking past open doors where they were
cleaning up an "accident" it never crossed my mind to
worry about odors.

MaggieLou 07-30-2010 11:06 AM

I would stay where you are. It's not every job that you are fortunate enough to have people you love to work with and the ability to do what you want. I would bring some quilting in to do during the slow times. The difference in pay vs. the hours wouldn't be worth it to me. Volunteering is a good idea. It lets you decide if you really like that type of work.

mochasue 07-30-2010 01:00 PM

Thank you all for your help. I am staying where I am. I have talked it over with my husband and he agrees. The time off is priceless and I will be bring my sewing machine to work. I have plenty of office space. I have mentioned it to one of the girls that works in the office next door to us and she wants me to make a quilt for her and she is even going to pay me! WOW! Now that's awesome!

mochasue 07-30-2010 01:02 PM

Also, I am a notary and I just got asked to do a notary for $150 on Monday - my day off from my job. Well, how do you like that! Just earned some extra money! I think that just proved you all right. Stay at my current job and I can make some extra money on my days off sometime!

butterflywing 07-30-2010 02:30 PM

besides, you would never have got used to the smell. never. it gets in your hair, your clothes, everywhere. you keep thinking that everyone can smell it on you.
it takes a special kind of person to do work like that and if you're concerned with it now, stay where you are.

p.s. i visited my mom in long-term care every day for years, and the smell just followed me home. long after she died i could still smell it.

Rusty's Mama 07-30-2010 04:23 PM

Sounds like you have an ideal job now. I would really hesitate to leave something like your current job, even though it is slow and boring, unless it was financially worthwhile. I am retired and love it. I know days can be long at jobs that are slow, but the tradeoff just doesn't seem worth it.

trueimage 07-30-2010 04:26 PM

I'd say keep your job and look for a fun part time job!!

Auntie 07-30-2010 05:01 PM

I volunteer at our local healthcare and love it. If I were younger I would work there. The residents are so sweet (most of them) and need special care. My granddaughter works at two facilities and they love her. She is one of those special caring people. I say, give it a try. The smells do come and go.

Ragann63 07-30-2010 06:52 PM

Enjoying your work is more important than the money you make. If you are currently bored, look for a new job, but don't go into one that you already sound as if you aren't going to like any better.

fratcat 07-30-2010 07:12 PM

If you have a job where you are respected, and you enjoy the hours and the money is good, I would stay with it. The economy is so unstable right now, I would be reluctant to give up a good thing. 100.00 more for 20 hours more work doesn't sound that good to me. I ended my full time job last year, and work 20 hours a week/4 hours a day., and I love the free time i get to pursue other activities, quilting and animal shelter volunteer. I wouldn't go back to a 40 hours week job again, unless I were in dire financial straits. If you current employer treats you with respect, pays you well and works with you. I would stay until the economy is better.

penski 07-30-2010 08:08 PM

i would keep the first job and if you need more hours of work in your week maybe you can get a part time job and maybe in a fabric store something with a few hours a week

Sheila Elaine 07-30-2010 09:00 PM

I vote you stay where you are and be thankful for a good boss & his family. I worked in hospitals for years and last year I was in a Nursing Home when I needed Rehab, after having both knees replaced. I hated the Nursing Home and you're right about the smell. Being around sick folks on an ongoing basis can become depressing, so think long & hard about leaving a good work environment.

How about making lap quilts to donate to residents of the Nursing Home. There are a lot of ways to Volunteer without going to work at one. Good luck.

ashlett 07-30-2010 11:25 PM

Stay where you are. Better the devil you know. :)

ksea 07-31-2010 05:01 AM


Originally Posted by mochasue
It is a hard decision to make. I love the people I work for. As far as the nursing home goes...it always smells the same. I'm just wondering if I would get used to it. I visit my mom about 3 times per week at the other location and it smells the same. It's probably their cleaning agent and the food.

God Bless people like you who can even consider working at a nursing home. It takes someone really special to work with older patients, I couldn't do but really appreciate anyone who can. My mother was diagnoised with Alz when she was only 60 years old. It is one of the saddest and most horriffic diseases that is know to mankind. I will keep you and your tough decision in my prayers.

Annz 07-31-2010 08:26 AM

I have been out of work for 16 months now and would do anything to be in a work environment where I was treated like family. I would look for another part time job for now but I wouldn't leave a good solid job behind even if the hours were cut. Is there a chance the company might fold? If sothat would be the only reason I would quit the job you have. Jobs right now are hard to find and the competition is intense. If you feel insecure in your present job then go for the new one. You can get used to anything when you have to.

Dee 07-31-2010 06:39 PM

In my opinion-I would stay right where I was.

zz-pd 08-01-2010 02:28 PM

The nursing home job is not good for money making, It is and will remain a low paying job. So if you can afford to stay at your other job, I would. God bless. PS. the smell never gets better, I worked as a CNA for years, before I went to dental assistant work.

jals loves to quilt 08-01-2010 02:49 PM

I don't mean to offend you but...
WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?!! if I could afford to work only 3 days a week AND was able to sew at work too I'd be only too happy to work there. Stay and count your (stitches) blessings!

fktsewing 08-02-2010 11:59 AM

Stay where you are--you like the boss and the pay is good, plus it does not smell weird. Why not try to get a part time job for some of the days you do not work your current job? Personally, I would never trade good pay and a good boss for more hours.

mosquitosewgirl 08-02-2010 12:10 PM


Originally Posted by ncsewer
If you decide to stay put, what about volunteering? If you can gain a sense of pride and fulfillment as a volunteer in that situation, maybe you could fille the down time at work by helping to organize things, like fund raising or organizing an event or something like that. During volunteer work you can see if you really like that type of work and can handle that workplace. If you find it turns to a passion, you'll be ready for the next time.

Another option would be to attend online classes while you are at work, or other classes in your community on the days you are not. Good luck.

JACRN 08-17-2010 08:01 PM

It sounds like you really like where your at.hospitals and nursing home work is not for everyone.there are always going to be all kinds of smells and difficult patients.i am s retired nurse. i loved every minute of my nursing career.Ireally love my freedom of my retirement though.Can you read there? That is a good way to pass your time. Good luck with your deceison.


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