Stepmother gift ideas?
#11
One of the greatest days of my life was when my step-daughter, at 18, called and thanked me for being the "mean mom" on the block that made them help with grocery shopping, sorting laundry, and obey a curfew and a bedtime when they were young. She said that she still remembered me telling them, "All canned goods are on sale once a month. When something you like is on sale buy a months worth and it will last you until it's on sale again." and "If you separate the whites from the darks so that you can use bleach your whites will always look white." I cried and told her that I didn't think I'd hear that for at least another 10 or 15 years. I only had them 2 1/2 years while their mother dealt with some personal issues. Sometimes you don't have to do anything other than say "Thank you."
#13
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How about a framed plaque of some sort saying how wonderful of a step mother she is? Or if she likes hand made totes, maybe one of those?
I too am a step mom, and I love my step girls and they treat me like a queen! Their mom lives near us and we get along just fine as well.
I too am a step mom, and I love my step girls and they treat me like a queen! Their mom lives near us and we get along just fine as well.
#14
I am a step mom to a now 20 year old, who was 10 when I came into Daddy's life. Since she lives with us, I have been her mom 1/2 of her life. She hates when I tell her what to do, but she appreciates all of support I have been to her. She used to make her mom homemade gifts, but her mom would always just sorta looked at them and rolled her eyes in front of her. However, nothing is more precious to me that the gifts she has made me. I always proudly display them. I have some beautiful ceramic bowls and other gifts she made in highschool. My favorite is a picture frame with her picture in it. I actually cried when she gave me that gift. She laughed and called me a cry baby. But then when I gave her a quilt for her new full sized bed when she turned 16, she was the one to cry.
I say give her a homemade gift with her interests in mind, favorite color, something that tells her that you know her likes.
I say give her a homemade gift with her interests in mind, favorite color, something that tells her that you know her likes.
#16
being a stepmom I've had to walk that tightrope of being careful what I say to not tick off the "real" Mom.
I thought the girls and I were close and always wondered about my step son. Well- he and I get along the best- he refers to me as his mom. I joke and say I'm the stepmonster but he corrects me.
If any of my kids made me a table runner I would be in the yard doing cartwheels! That being said- I am just so happy my dd and 1 stepd are now sewing and quilting. That is a thank you enough for me.
So all the ideas listed are great ideas. Thanks for being a great "bonus" kid- that's what I call mine. As much as I still don't like the things their Mom does, I am appreciative she had them so they could be part of my family.
I thought the girls and I were close and always wondered about my step son. Well- he and I get along the best- he refers to me as his mom. I joke and say I'm the stepmonster but he corrects me.
If any of my kids made me a table runner I would be in the yard doing cartwheels! That being said- I am just so happy my dd and 1 stepd are now sewing and quilting. That is a thank you enough for me.
So all the ideas listed are great ideas. Thanks for being a great "bonus" kid- that's what I call mine. As much as I still don't like the things their Mom does, I am appreciative she had them so they could be part of my family.
#18
I would have a look at what she really likes in colours, and make something in those colours. My MIL loved florals and pinks, not my taste, but I made her a pink jumper with flowers embroidered on it - she wore it alot. Even when I wasnt there
#19
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: NE Wisconsin
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How about making a set of pillowcases with her favorite flowers in the fabric or something else that is of interest to her (bingo, cooking, books,etc.)?
Lots of fun to look for novelty fabrics to suit people in our lives!
Sue
Lots of fun to look for novelty fabrics to suit people in our lives!
Sue
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