nycquilter

would you believe nothing??? I'm perfect??? LOLOL

where do I start? mostly, I'm less neat than he would like me to be.

nativetexan

that i ask him not to put silverware in the side of the sink that has the garbage disposal. that i like to turn off lights when i leave a room, like cabinet doors shut, etc.
most everything.

stitchinwitch

I breathe
I talk to him
I do not anticipate his needs
What can I say - I am a failure in all of life! --------

quiltaroni

Too many to list.

GailG

I answer his questions with a question. (I think it's the remnants of the teacher in me.)

FQ Stash Queen

Breathing doesn't bother him, only because he can't hear it.
Hates when I talk during his "stupid cartoon" shows, but it's okay for him to do the same during my "dumb legal" ones.
Always asks what's for supper about 5:30. If you haven't figured out by now that you're cooking, quit asking.
I spend too much money (although I must admit he's right)
I don't talk loud enough, and when I do, I'm yelling.
I'm not a failure in all of life, just most of his. :lol:

oldswimmer

Buying fabric and quilting magazines... he just cant understand why I "need" more...

Hosta

his constant negativity it is driving me round the bend he didn't use to be this way just since he lost his job I come up with ideas to make money and he always shoots them down OOHH so iritating

stitchinwitch

[No, dh doesn't HEAR my breathing - it is just the fact that I AM breathing! ha! Are we both married to the same man? Oh! Whenever NCIS is on, no matter HOW MANY times the SAME episode, he needs it quiet... We DID have some good times, and his health is failing ............ maybe if he stopped SMOKING, that MIGHT help?? Oh well..............

Breathing doesn't bother him, only because he can't hear it.
Hates when I talk during his "stupid cartoon" shows, but it's okay for him to do the same during my "dumb legal" ones.
Always asks what's for supper about 5:30. If you haven't figured out by now that you're cooking, quit asking.
I spend too much money (although I must admit he's right)
I don't talk loud enough, and when I do, I'm yelling.
I'm not a failure in all of life, just most of his. :lol:[/quote]

laralea

I like to make informed decisions so I ask a lot of questions, especially when it comes to spending money. He calls me indecisive. I tell him that he prefers the ready, fire, aim method of decision making (or I call it going off half-cocked!).Every now and then I actually save his behind with all my questioning, but I also pay a heavy price sometimes when he perceives that I'm questioning his intelligence or 'godhood'. I suspect that somewhere there's a middle road, but we haven't found it yet.