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    Old 09-30-2010, 07:05 PM
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    Originally Posted by EagarBeez
    I am in the process of making my 4th quilt. It's going to be a bagello. I noticed when I ironed the 4th row, that a few of my blocks are off just a smidge. You don't notice them from just looking at it, but, close up, I can see them. They are not off very drastically, and I am going to be tying this quilt. I was going to rip it all out, and my husband says "no one is perfect and no quilt is perfect". He also said that it is being made with love and following through and finishing is better then tossing it in a corner
    Seems the words "just a smidge" are a clue as to the severity of the imperfection. I vote for looking at your quilt with your eyes squinted rather tightly and listening to your husband with your ears wide open. By the way, would you like to rent him out?
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    Old 09-30-2010, 08:36 PM
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    A smidge is allowed.
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    Old 09-30-2010, 08:40 PM
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    It is rare that I will agree with a man, but I will make an exception this time!
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    Old 09-30-2010, 10:12 PM
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    Originally Posted by KatFish
    Listen to DH. He is right. :roll:
    Again, my comment.
    You have a very wise DH...he's a keeper.


    You would think mine was a Virgo (actually, I am!) with his being what has to be called a "quilt policeman"....I keep reminding him that a "That looks nice. Good job. Nice colors. etc ...instead of "...there are a couple points that aren't good."



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    Old 09-30-2010, 11:35 PM
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    What a wise DH youhave there!!! Listen to him. I bet I could point out every mistake ever made on any of my quilts, but I bet you couldn't find them without my help. Just keep at it
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    Old 10-01-2010, 02:36 AM
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    Don't be so hard on yourself, I've been at this for 45 years and there are times my corners still do not always meet. You can fudge them a bit if you nest the seams (one seam toward you and one away) and pin on both sides of the seam, then tug just a bit as you stitch the joining seam and they will usually submit.
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    Old 10-01-2010, 04:52 AM
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    Originally Posted by EagarBeez
    I am in the process of making my 4th quilt. It's going to be a bagello. I noticed when I ironed the 4th row, that a few of my blocks are off just a smidge. You don't notice them from just looking at it, but, close up, I can see them. They are not off very drastically, and I am going to be tying this quilt. I was going to rip it all out, and my husband says "no one is perfect and no quilt is perfect". He also said that it is being made with love and following through and finishing is better then tossing it in a corner
    You are forgetting to stand ten feet back or then ride a fast horse past it.
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    Old 10-01-2010, 06:36 AM
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    Your DH sounds like a wise man with alot of heart and soul!
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    Old 10-01-2010, 08:00 AM
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    As others have said, been there, done that! If you really enjoy what you are doing, keep trying, and remember that there would have been a time that you may not have noticed that it did not line up perfectly, so that is progress. Just move on to the next row and pin as you go and match the points and seams for each block and if one doesn't match, at the point of pinning, you can correct the row before you sew. Good luck, and just know that like all other things in life, practice is what it takes.
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    Old 10-01-2010, 08:43 AM
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    Isn't it the Amish who purposely quilt in a mistake to remind them that only God is perfect?
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