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#61
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Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Aberdeen, Scotland
Posts: 635
That's such a shame that your hard work hasn't been appreciated. I think its possible that your children don't realise how much they've hurt your feelings and probably don't realise how much hard work goes into making a quilt. I'd lay it past till I felt more positive about it.
#62
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Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Heart of Colorado's majestic mountains!
Posts: 6,026
I am perhaps in a similar situation in that I had two grandsons who were to graduate from High school last year. One did and I gave him a quilt that was very masculine and mostly blacks, grays, and a little red. He said he liked it and it went into immediate use. The second boy did not graduate and is not being diligent about completing his HS degree this year. I am sad that he doesn't seem to understand that life is mostly what you put into it. As for the quilt (which is nearly finished) I will keep it for now. But should I choose to give it someone else I will not change it-it is as I planned and made it and will be that way.
#68
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Lumby, British Columbia
Posts: 2,769
First of quilt board ladies and gents, I'm proud of you all from refraining from using bad words. I include myself in this by the way!! Just make your quilt the way you want. Finish it and then decide what you want to do with it. Never push a quilt on anyone, especially if their not quilt worthy. Mine seem to find their way to the right people. Lookng forward to seeing your quilt!!
#69
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Hampstead N.C.
Posts: 1,870
I love black, white and red French Braids and butterfly's are so wonderful, they symbolize metamorphasis. I will gladly take this quilt made with love and say thank-you and be gracious. Either way enjoy making this quilt if it please's you, lot's of love sent your way.
#70
Super Member
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Kenai, Alaska
Posts: 1,150
Take care of yourself and enjoy what you like. I think enough family members have already disappointed you in trying to please them and it is time to move on to please yourself.
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