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    Old 02-03-2011, 05:54 PM
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    I just aim for "better than the last one". No one has complained about the imperfections yet, but I don't point them out, either.
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:13 PM
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    Hi Becky, " Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence." Vince Lombardi I am far from perfect in my quilting but I love doing it and my family doesn't look for mistakes Life is good, SMILE peterparley
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:19 PM
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    That is what I'm learning now, to give up on perfection, because I know that I can never reach it. I get frustrated because all of the quilts in the books that I look at look so "perfect." But I'm trying to teach myself that nothing is perfect. Granted, I do pull out threads when something looks off and not quite right. But I'm telling myself to do the best I can, and that is all I can do. Otherwise I would give up quilting. And I love to quilt.
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:20 PM
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    A favorite teacher (and friend) told a class I was in to adhere to either the "Ten Foot Rule": if you can't see the error from 10 feet, forget about it; or, the "Friend Going to the Bathroom" rule: if a friend going to the bathroom sees a quilt through a partly opened door, & comes back to say"That is a gorgeous quilt on the bed/wall/sofa!" say "Thank you!" & DO NOT make excuses or point out any imperfections. Enjoy your art!
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:26 PM
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    Originally Posted by Becky13
    Don't get me wrong, I LOVE quilting, but am frustrated at the sense that everything I do has to be perfect. Reading about the latest gadget that we can buy to make SURE that we get that 1/4" (minus two threads), just makes me sigh... And how we scurry to take out a seam when our blocks are off 3 threads. All the talk about being sure that everything is "exact". Are we quilting because it's fun? We're making a loving gift? Or is perfection the goal?
    I hear you. Sew a seam. Rip it out. Perfection is my middle name. NOT!
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:28 PM
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    I know what you mean. I look at the quilts in the shops and they seem so perfect. Mine will never be in a show but I made them from love and that should be all we can ask for.
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:37 PM
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    This reminded me of the quilt group I belong to. Our name is The good enough quilters!
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:37 PM
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    It doesn't have to be perfect it is HANDMADE if you want perfection become a microchip.

    Imperfections add personality and "Soul" to a quilt. If we continually strive for perfection in everything we do then we become stressed, that is not what quilting or any craft is all about, just enjoy what you do. I am about to finish my second quilt which I will photograph and send for you all to see, I love it with all its imperfections and I hope you all love it too.

    I say if you can't see your imperfections from the moon then it is perfect.
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:37 PM
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    Perhaps more quilt tops would get finished if the person working on it would accept the fact that only God is
    perfect and that we are mere mortals.
    I aways try to give my projects the best that I can be, and am usually amazed at how well it comes out considering that
    I will never be perfect!
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    Old 02-03-2011, 06:38 PM
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    I understand totaly. I make so many mistakes and have to rip them out but I take them in stride because I want the finished product to be as good as I can make it. But yest I do get frustrated with my erros.
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