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    Old 06-30-2012, 06:28 PM
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    I can't imagine being able to charge enough for my time to produce a quilt. I certainly wouldn't do it for any trade out. She may not realize what is involved in making a quilt start to finish, but never the less, she would be getting the best of that bargain. I would respectfully decline.
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    Old 06-30-2012, 08:24 PM
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    i did a queen size quilt for a gentleman i worked with to give his wife for their aniversary i had $185 in the the quilt as i purchased all the fabric to his color specifacation and used the pattern he requested ( he looked thru some of my quiltbooks and picked out the pattern ) however i didnt charge him any labor except what the quilting cost as i dont
    quilt it myself i quilt by check as my dmil says ))). he was thrilled and so was she and sooo surprised too we managed to keep it a secret for 5 months. he was very patient as i work full time and my dmil was going thru chemo/radiation at the time and it took way longer than expected. i was really glad to see it go though lol i was kinda tired of it lol.
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    Old 06-30-2012, 09:21 PM
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    after i saw the fabric and if it was something i liked and felt it was worth it i would make the quilt top only... since i dont quilt i would have to pay and it is 2 cents an inch here now... so then she would be on her own for that part of the quilt..
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    Old 07-01-2012, 05:12 AM
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    I would do it for the fabric...I just enjoy making them...I have been offered many times to be paid. I think it takes the fun out of it....and this is my hobby...I don't want the stress. Only take it on if you feel you would enjoy it...and be sure to have her pay for the thread,batting and backing
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    Old 07-01-2012, 05:45 AM
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    Personally I would not take her up on the offer. If she really, really wanted a Jacobs Ladder quilt she would have made it herself. I don't think a large box of unknown fabric would be enough payment for your time.
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    Old 07-01-2012, 06:55 AM
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    follow your heart...BUT ask yourself ...is $12 an hour really CHEAP? NO, many people are doing much harder labor for $7.25 an hour BEFORE taxes...(and yes they are considered SKILLED at what they do)

    Do you LOVE to make quilts? Would your friend really be able to pay an outrage price like $600 for a quilt? DO you honestly feel she is taking advantage of your friendship....

    only YOU know what your true relationship is, and how it stands. Only YOU know what your time is really worth.

    Personally I have found that not one person has ever been willing to pay me to make a quilt even at $10 per hour and they supplied all the materials....IF I choose to make them a quilt it is usually for a $150 and they supply everything...which is why I don't do it...I don't have time to do my own stuff..hehehe

    lots of varied advise/opinions on this and like I said, only YOU can determine what will be done.
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    Old 07-01-2012, 07:12 AM
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    It doesn't sound worth it to me. It's going to have to be a really big box of fabric!
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    Old 07-01-2012, 07:26 AM
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    Is this person someone you care enough about to make them a quilt? Part of the process for me is thinking about the person while I'm making the quilt or dress, or curtain, or costume, or whatever it is. If it is someone I love, it's enjoyable. If not, I kind of feel resentful at times. Go with your heart. If you want to consider it a gift, go for it! Just take the fabric she gives you and if you don't want it, quietly give it away. Just my 2 cents worth.
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    Old 07-01-2012, 07:41 AM
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    A queen size quilt is a lot of work and some beds take an oversize queen because of the mattress height. A box of fabric is not enough.
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    Old 07-01-2012, 07:45 AM
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    When I construct a quilt from the ground up...I start at $500 for a twin, $750 for a full and $1000. for queen/king. I think a box of fabric is a poor trade for all your labor, expertise, time, etc. I have said it a thousand times....folks who have never made a quilt have no clue what is involved....and how would they? Best of luck to you in your decision, I hope you find happy ground for both of you.
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