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    Old 01-11-2011, 04:47 AM
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    I so agree with your post.I can sew for hrs, or not at all for days or weeks.Sometimes a good book takes precedent, or baking cookies, or just a good movie on TV.Being retired....DH is retired, so guess I am too.....means doing what you want,when you want.....or at least it does to me.

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    why change who you are? If quilting requires energy and heavy mind work, reserve the activity for a time when you don't have that in other areas of your life. I enjoy the mind=work, so don't have the same problem you do, but there are definitely times when I can't look at my machine, and at those times I find other things to do that I enjoy...and I don't feel guilty about leaving the machine to rest. Or you could find a part of the quilting process that does help you relax and do only that part when you're tired...saving the rest for a better time.
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    Old 01-11-2011, 05:07 AM
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    Good Morning tuxedokitty,

    There is a "SEW DAILY CHALLANGE" on another guild. You sew for at least 15 minutes every day. It helps to get you startedand then an hour has flown-by.

    Quilter68 who is headed to 70 this year
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    Old 01-11-2011, 05:11 AM
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    Choose very simple patterns. I work with my brain at full gear every day, so I am in the same boat, when I come home I want to shut down. But that's when I find quilting seems like therapy to me, but those are the days that i do a simple or redundant pattern. Something where i can do the same thing over and over again, with little thought.
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    Old 01-11-2011, 05:30 AM
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    You're not lazy! Just overextended. I had to wait until I retired to have the energy and time to get into quilting:-)
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    Old 01-11-2011, 05:43 AM
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    I LOVE to quilt and sew. I used to have a job that was stressful, I'd just come home and barely make it through dinner, then collapsed on the sofa. Here's my suggestion. Cut some blocks and batting (say 13- 15" sq) then cut some strips (they don't have to be the same width). Then you can sit and do some quilt-as-you-go blocks. Place the middle strip right side up on top of the batting and backing. Then add strips to each side. Pretty soon you'll have lots of blocks without any thinking!
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    Old 01-11-2011, 05:49 AM
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    I think you and I must have been twins seperated at birth! LOL!
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    Old 01-11-2011, 06:08 AM
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    Kathy Patterson, you took the words right out of my mouth!! RETIREMENT!!
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    Old 01-11-2011, 06:11 AM
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    So...not that I'd do this...wink,wink...(I have thought about it, though) but how about getting the fabric flu once in a while and then staying home to recuperate?
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    Old 01-11-2011, 06:12 AM
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    You sound like my long lost twin sister. I have to concentrate on every little step and with a busy schedule sometimes I just need veggie time. Deep breath in cleansing breath out - let's take hands and skip into our sewing rooms with no pressure just for simply enjoyment when we have time. Be blessed bunches
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    Old 01-11-2011, 06:21 AM
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    Hey Kitty,

    Being 55 doesn't have anything to do with being tired. As someone else stated at age 45 something went haywire for me---no energy, depression,etc , etc...Discovered at age 45 that I was in menopause! So first off make sure you are well.
    As for stressful work---I was an industrial engineer in the trucking business. On call 24/7 in a business that didn't know the meaning of "detail". Everything was quick, down and dirty---get 'er done! Imagine the difference between that and quilting....
    I have really had to retrain my brain to do detail, clean work; but it wasn't easy. GO SLOW...learn to enjoy your alone time. Put on soothing music or keep your sewing room quiet. It can be an enjoyable release for you after a stressful day at work.

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