First let me say I'm sorry for your loss..my mom lost her mom last year and I'm making a memory table topper for her with photos what I did for the label is I found a picture of my mom, me and my gran and I transfered it. I wrote exactly what's in "". I cried alot making it.
Cleaning my mother in law got a white handquilted wholecloth from a family mamber and it was badly stained she soaked in bottles of spray n wash for a couple days and I saw it this summer it is perfect! Blood may be forever don't know about that one...