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That is why I don't take classes. There is always going to be someone who "knows" more than you do, and probably does. But taking a class "does not a quilter make." Do what you are happy with, and you will be the one to win the blue ribbon.
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I know some of those quilt police, the perfectionist and some not so! That curl up their nose and look down it at you! Been there as I have only done this now 3 yrs myself, bottom line is I DON'T LIKE THEM! It is a form of being a bully if you let them. I have decided that I am a "free spirit" of quilters. I do what I want or feel or have time for even. That is just my style! It works for me!Don't see it changing. One thing I learned it do what works for you! I would let her know, "I will do what works for me and when I give my quilts away they are loved just like they are"
Did I mention "the free spirit quilters" just drive the quilt police nuts? |
YES, I have the quilt police at my sewing group....they tell me that I am being to hard on myself! That my sewing is OK and not to be so nitpicking about it. They have done shows so I guess they know what they are doing. And yes, they do bring home lots of ribbons. One has taken home two Best in Show.
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Originally Posted by lovingmama
Here is what I do, I ask people how many different they can find to make the sum of 10. (5+5, 4+6 etc.)
Than I ask them, which one is right, which one is wrong? More than once, there are different ways of doing things, with the same good result. So it comes down to what you prefer. Sorry, but there will be always someone in our lives who knows it all and especially better. Look at her as you would at a child, still needs to learn a lot. |
What is the saying? "Don't should on your friends."
You can tell your friend that she only learned ONE method of many and while you appreciate her sharing the knowledge, that you will keep an open mind and try different techniques. I mean - jeepers, if there were only one way, what's the point of ALL those magazines and books out there. |
Crashnquilt - great story!! And good for you sticking up for the newbie....hopefully you "saved" her from quitting this wonderful hobby altogether after a nasty and public comment like the Old Crow made.
:thumbup: Tanesha |
The quilt police can chase off new quilters, if one lets them! Lucky for me, I am hardheaded!
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No rules, just preferences
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I found out many years ago there is more than one way of doing anything. Good for you that you said you do it this way because it works for you.
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One of my biggest grips is to have a teacher who says her way is the only right way. Bull you know what. As you said there are various techniques and you use the one that best suits what you are doing. I do think it is beneficial to take classes, but beware of the "my way only" teacher. Always give their way a try you might find it helps. I am an appliqurer and there must be 101 different way to do the same thing. Good luck and keep on quilting.
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