Struggling
#11
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Bushkill, Pa
Posts: 534
Set aside an amount of time every day to work on it; for instance, a half hour, 45 minutes. When that time is up, stop and go on to something else. Do this every day, and it helps a lot getting through quilts you don't really like or anything else for that matter.
#12
I just finished 2quilts for brothers that were black, gray and a bit of red. Even though I like these colors, I found it almost depressing to sew these together.I would work on 3 blocks then skip a day and work on 3 more. On the off days I would work on a small project that I had started that I was using bright, happy colors. It helped even my mood out. :-D lol
#14
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Tampa Bay Area, Florida
Posts: 2,229
My also help to focus on the new couple who will be receiving your gift quilt. Focusing on your workmanship so your friend wil be excited and proud to give it and the bride and groom to receive it may be the perspective to help motivate you to complete it-along with what ever time limit/small goal system works for you!
#15
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Join Date: Dec 2014
Posts: 187
I have made many requested quilts from family.Right now I am doing another tee shirt quilt. Which I totally hate making.
Many have been colors I dislike.I drag my feet starting them every time..But once I start.Which I make myself do..I know I have to finish..I think about the person not the quilt..some of the quilts have turn out great..not my taste or style..but doesn't have to be to be nice..just finish a wedding quilt ..the colors were deep purple and turquoise..far out of my color range..but when done was beautiful..the groom comment was to the bride..I don't even like our colors..but this is beautiful..the comment was relayed back to me..had another ..not my colors..that ended up in all the wedding pictures..they like it so well..so my advise is think of your friend..fun times with her..do a few hours here and there..until u see it start to grow into a quilt..u may be surprised at what happens..if u keep negative feelings..u will end up fighting the quilt ..all the time u work on it..
Many have been colors I dislike.I drag my feet starting them every time..But once I start.Which I make myself do..I know I have to finish..I think about the person not the quilt..some of the quilts have turn out great..not my taste or style..but doesn't have to be to be nice..just finish a wedding quilt ..the colors were deep purple and turquoise..far out of my color range..but when done was beautiful..the groom comment was to the bride..I don't even like our colors..but this is beautiful..the comment was relayed back to me..had another ..not my colors..that ended up in all the wedding pictures..they like it so well..so my advise is think of your friend..fun times with her..do a few hours here and there..until u see it start to grow into a quilt..u may be surprised at what happens..if u keep negative feelings..u will end up fighting the quilt ..all the time u work on it..
#16
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Join Date: Jul 2013
Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Posts: 459
The hardest part for me when I work with colors I dont't like is to make the right choice. For exemple, when layering my blocks to find the correct placement, nothing seems right! Last time, I took some pictures of several possibilities at different stage and sent it to the recipient, asking her what she prefered. Her enthousiasm helped me to keep motivation.
#17
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Join Date: Aug 2013
Posts: 9,299
I guess great minds think alike. I was going to suggest three things:
1) set a timer for 30 minutes to work on it
2) think about your friend and what you value about her and how happy and honored she will feel that you did this for her loved one. Try to forget the colorway. It's "immaterial" --pun intended-- to your friendship.
3) reward yourself when the timer goes off with something
1) set a timer for 30 minutes to work on it
2) think about your friend and what you value about her and how happy and honored she will feel that you did this for her loved one. Try to forget the colorway. It's "immaterial" --pun intended-- to your friendship.
3) reward yourself when the timer goes off with something
#18
Madquilter that is some really great advice for cminor as well as any of us working on those sorts of projects for others and a great way to reach out side of your self to grow your own creativity.
#19
Did you perhaps jump to the conclusion that it was the colors and it really is something missing in the quilt design? Does it need some contrast or a pattern change or is it really the colors? Try some options and see what pops for you. When I don't like a color it is way too easy for me to say its the color and not look at all the other design possibilities.
#20
I have to agree with laughing at the differences and making it fun doing something outside your comfort zone. This is what I did in a similar situation in making a comfort quilt for a friends niece. Let me tell you, I had more compliments on that quilt (that I didn't like even finished, lol) than almost any other of my quilts. Just goes to show, there's someone out there for every style and color combination!!
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