Words of wisdom from Sandra Betzina
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Bloomington IN
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The Amish ALWAYS put it a "mistake" in all their quilts as GOD is the only perfect person. I agree with the Amish and always have a "mistake" in my quilts. I am also a "rescue collector" I hunt thrift stores, garage sales, rummage sales and dumpsters for quilt pieces and quilts. I feel that someone put their heart and soul into this creative outlet and have to honor them and their creativity I "rescue them" and hopefully someone will appreciate the finished product.
#14
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Location: Beautiful Oregon
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Someone else on this forum gave good advise. "Don't tell anyone about your mistakes on your quilt."
That makes sense to me -- if you give someone a beautiful quilt and point out the mistake, that is all they will look for each time.
Also, the recipient of your quilt might think you are giving them your second best, so they won't really value it.
That makes sense to me -- if you give someone a beautiful quilt and point out the mistake, that is all they will look for each time.
Also, the recipient of your quilt might think you are giving them your second best, so they won't really value it.
#17
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Horse Country, FL
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Yes, and on this forum, people tell what's wrong with their work when they post a picture. Many times I can't find the mistake. The only ones that need to be concerned about mistakes or imperfections would be judges at a quilt show. Frankly, I'm just glad toget a project done and go on to a new one.
#18
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Tampa Bay Area, Florida
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One element we struggle with as a society, I believe, is graciousness. Many times when given a compliment I mentally have to remind myself to smile and say "thank you". It seems most of us have that knee jerk reaction to belittle ourselves, our efforts, or our possessions-whatever is being complimented. What I remind myself is that when I belittle someone's compliment I'm basically saying, at the very least: "Wow you really have no taste do you?" Because that's how I feel when I give a sincere compliment and the response is to belittle what I've said. We just need to remind ourselves "smile and say thank you, smile and say thank you".
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