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    Old 12-03-2010, 05:31 PM
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    Joy is in the giving, go ahead and give and enjoy! Don't let others interfere, just because they decide this week,they may change again!Amazing how we let others so easily change how we feel about things. I am not allowing that these days! You put a lot of thought,care and love in each gift. Don't let them do this to you! Give, and enjoy! Now put a smile on and take back your giving!
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    Old 12-03-2010, 05:40 PM
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    why weren't you involved in the decision to change the plans ?
    that is plain rude !!
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    Old 12-03-2010, 05:41 PM
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    Originally Posted by QuiltnCowgirl
    I would go ahead & give them each their gift - just from you to them - something you want to do just because & not because you are or are not getting a gift from them.

    And then...go find a real good white elephant gift..."real good" as in the gag gift that none of them will want to have.

    It will be all in fun...and no hurt feelings because they each have a special something from you already!


    I agree. I think that you will feel a lot better knowing that your gifts made it to their owners and that your efforts will not have been wasted. I think that most people would rather prefer a lovely gift, especially the children, than a white elephant gift from the storeroom.
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    Old 12-03-2010, 05:48 PM
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    If you have them ready, give them. Just explain that they were done early, Those are adorable !!

    We have a good time w/the white elephant, ever got a 1 gal can of corn, with lottery tickets taped to the bottom ??? Some are really pretty good, and around here could be anything in that toaster box:)
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    Old 12-03-2010, 05:52 PM
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    Originally Posted by mommamac
    Originally Posted by quiltsRfun
    Give it to them some other time, maybe throughout the year as a surprise.


    find a 'junk' gift & enjoy the time with family & don't mention the gifts you have made - that'll keep them guessing. LOL
    The good thing is you have birthday gifts all made for the year - lucky you!
    I am so tempted to go along with this suggestion. You'll be ahead of the game all year long and enjoy the party anyway. But then I guess that is not really what Christmas is all about. Do what your heart tells you. Don't let SIL get to you. and DH should be backing you up. After all, he knew you were making all these wonderful things for HIS family. Merry Christmas.
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    Old 12-03-2010, 06:26 PM
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    Sounds like something I would do, LOL
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    Old 12-03-2010, 06:32 PM
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    I would give them all a wrapped gift and refuse to take part in the gag gift/white elephant exchange. You have worked too hard on all of this.
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    Old 12-03-2010, 06:32 PM
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    Originally Posted by mary quite contrary
    It sounds to me like you are ready for your own craft sale. You have a whole booth ready to sell. Buy yourself something nice!!!
    But she already has the names embroired on them.
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    Old 12-03-2010, 06:33 PM
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    I give presents at Christmas (and birthdays, etc) because I want to, not because I am obligated...I don't expect anything in return, so even if I don't get a gift, it doesn't stop me from giving one. I would give them all you lovingly-hand-made-from-the-heart gifts and let them play the junk swap game...they won't cherish those gifts, but they will yours and you will feel better in the end...
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    Old 12-03-2010, 06:33 PM
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    I would give the gifts and politely 'decline' the junk/gag gift if it was presented. Your gifts are made from the heart and I understand your disappointment.
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