Quilter's gifting anxiety
#41
This is something I'm constantly working on for myself. The formula I try to stick with is to first give them whatever it is and just let them enjoy it. If I feel the need to degrade my work in some way, I try to say something positive-sounding like, "each thing I make I try to get a little better." or "Next time I'll do such and such." If I don't have these things in my head, I'd just end up criticizing myself all the time. And then I'd get self-conscious that I'm being annoying. Wow, I'm pretty neurotic, aren't I? ;)
Put the shoe on the other foot for a moment. If you had a friend who was less experienced than you, how would you feel about them giving you a quilt they made?
Put the shoe on the other foot for a moment. If you had a friend who was less experienced than you, how would you feel about them giving you a quilt they made?
#45
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Your friend knows that you are just beginning, and haven't had time to match her skill level. BECAUSE she is a quilter she will recognize immediately how much time, effort and love has gone into this gift, and she will absolutely treasure it. Give it with pride and know that she will truly love it, and will love you for treasuring her enough to do all this just for her.
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